Invitation to join the conversation – live and interactive
So many stories
My own body changed fundamentally at age 60 when I was treated for prostate cancer. The sexual impact was that erections and orgasms became impossible for a few years, and then elusive and unreliable. My partner’s body went through lots of changes over the same period as she stopped taking hormone replacement (HRT). I felt devastated to lose access to the sexuality that had felt wired into my body from before puberty. Frustration started to tear at our relationship.
Yet we have remained intimate and sensual throughout, and over six years worked out new ways to be explosively sexual in our new bodies.
Different bodies, different lived experiences Throughout my healing process, I have hosted close to a hundred group conversations, mostly among men responding to loss and change in sexual function. I’ve talked in intimate detail with over 200 people of all genders and sexual orientations and levels of vanilla/kinkiness. I’ve sat with many in the pain of loss and confusion, and been inspired their discoveries of ways to have delicious sex when there is a soft or otherwise-different penis in the mix.
I believe it’s time to shed limiting beliefs about sex and erections and match our sex lives to our changing bodies and relationships. Overcoming barriers to frank and open talk enables our sexual creativity and deep needs for loving touch to flourish.
I invite you to spend an hour with me on 1 June at 12 noon Eastern time / 18h00 CET. I’ll share some of my own lived experience and some tips from my book Beyond Erections and create space for some conversation to emerge. You’re welcome if you’re over 18 and experiencing erectile differences in yourself or a partner, or know of loved ones in this situation.
Logistics If you click the button above, you will be taken to a secure credit card payment platform where you can enter the amount you are willing to pay for this event. Once your payment is complete you will receive your meeting details by email within one day from Mish.
Event date and time Monday June 1st, 2026 at 9 am Pacific time | 12 noon Eastern time | 6 pm Central European time and Central Africa time.
Other ways to connect
Both my blog and my book offer more open conversations about erectile differences, and invite you to join in. While I encourage you to address any underlying medical issues with the appropriate doctor(s), my own contribution is not about cure but about thriving in your body the way it is. The book offers practical suggestions to adjust your mindset, re-engage in physical pleasure, and re-imagine orgasms. The Swell blog (below) creates a space for many voices to be heard – perhaps you would also like to share your story?
Away with shame
Bring erectile differences out of shameful secrecy. Liberate full body sexual creativity.
Not a quick fix
No quick promises about “fixing this dick.” Enjoy sexual pleasure and intimacy with your body as it is now.
Full body pleasure
There is a treasure trove of pleasure awaiting those who use their whole bodies to make love.
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